You know that
annoying new feature on Facebook that regularly shows you memories from years ago? Yeah, that one. The one that’s constantly showing me pictures from a sad and tragic experience, pictures I only look at in my home on occasions when I’m able to do so without bursting into tears.
I guess it isn’t enough that Facebook asks me every single time I log in “What’s on your mind?” (like they really want to know) it now feels the need to PUT things onto my mind that weren’t already there in Kodak living color in that particular moment when I might just have been having a very happy day remembering all the nice and fun things I have to remember and avoiding giving too much time to those thoughts about how sometimes parts of my life just suck because my husband is gone and I miss him terribly. Every. Single. Day.
And then, BOOM! There’s a picture I deliberately keep tucked away.
Doesn’t Facebook know that our lives go through cycles and that when we post something in the moment for a specific reason, maybe three years later we don’t need it flashed back at us because we can look it up ourselves if we really really REALLY want to? I mean, we’ve already shared it once, is there some need at Facebook’s end for us to share it again? Of course, there’s always a nice little note that it won’t be seen by anyone else as a past memory unless we choose to share it.
Thanks, but I CHOSE TO SHARE IT THREE YEARS AGO WHEN IT HAPPENED, NOW PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE! Are they running out of data or traffic or interesting shares? Are people just not posting enough stuff anymore that they’re turning to reruns? Geesh. Maybe other people get a wide variety of memories brought back up in their faces, but my stream seems to follow the same path every time, right into a Kleenex commercial.
That’s what is on my mind, Facebook.
(Before anyone feels the need to tell me, yes, I do know I can turn off the memories that appear, and yes, once in a blue moon there is one I enjoy seeing but I’m not a fan of reruns unless they’re ones of my favorite old TV shows.)